Tuesday, March 31, 2020

Inside Doris Day’s Sunny Yellow House in Carmel as Estate Goes to Auction

I’ve always d Doris Day and her movies. Watching comedies like Pillow Talk and Please Don’t Eat the Daisies always cheers me up, so I’ve been ing out some of my old DVDs of her movies this week. I highly recommend them when you’re stuck at home and need a good laugh! She died last May […]

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Monday, March 30, 2020

Say This, Not That–8 Statements To Empower You Daily

We all have moments of self-doubt and days where burying our head in the sand or at least under a pillow seems appealing. You aren’t solitary in your reluctance to try new things. You aren’t alone in being your harshest critic. We all have that inner voice that second guesses every brilliant idea we have and puts down even our best hair days.

But learning to flip the negative into a positive will get you far. According to a study from the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, having an optimistic attitude may help people live longer. Not to mention affirmative thinking can bring you job success and overall high achievements.

What you think, you become.

Here are 8 statements that can ease anxiety and squash negative self-talk in adults as well as children. Train yourself to say this and not that and you’re well on your path to peaceful confidence.

Say This, Not That–8 Statements To Empower You Daily

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Truck snowplowing a parking lot from start to finish 4 k Video by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

Truck snowplowing a parking lot from start to finish 4 k Video
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Saturday, March 28, 2020

How to Make a Face Mask With A Filter

Did you know you can use a common household air filter to create a face mask? Here's how to sew a DIY Face Mask with a Filter if needed!

Whether you want to help someone in need or are looking for a boredom buster that could potentially help people in the future, this post is for you! Today I have a neighbor, a friend,...

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Husqvarnas Strange new equipment & power tools at World of Concrete & Con expo 2020 4 k video by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

Husqvarnas Strange new equipment & power tools at World of Concrete & Con expo 2020 4 k video
This Video may get me permanently banned from Husqvarna booths. Husqvarna has new heavy equipment and power tools released at World of concrete. Remote controlled Robotic excavators designed for Demolition, concrete saws, improvements to their compaction equipment and more.


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Thursday, March 26, 2020

#StayHome and Clean With Me (Full House Cleaning) by Rachel Talbott

#StayHome and Clean With Me (Full House Cleaning)
Hey everyone! Since most of us are staying home at the moment, why not make our space as clean and cozy as possible!! Catch up on all the projects and organizing that you need to get done!! Today I'm sharing my cleaning routine for the entire house. xo ♥MY MUSIC: https://spoti.fi/2MB4U8p ♥MY WEBSITE: http://www.racheltalbott.com ♥MY SHOP: http://www.PacificThyme.com/ ♥INSTAGRAM: http://followgram.me/racheltalbott ♥MY PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/racheltalbott/ ♥HUBBYS COOKING CHANNEL: http://www.youtube.com/ByronTalbott ♥FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.talbott * DISCLAIMER: The opinions expressed are true &my own. I link affiliate links to make it easier for you to find the exact products I mention.....and... I LOVE YOU!!!! =) Thank you for supporting what I do!! ♥♥♥ THIS IS NOT A SPONSORED VIDEO


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Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Track Froze up and Locked out on a Job. 4 k video by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

Track Froze up and Locked out on a Job. 4 k video
We had issues working on a demolition job. Fall turned to winter overnight and dumped 8 inches of snow on us. We loaded and hauled out with dump trailer instead of the dump truck.


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How to Make a Bunny Cake! Plus Bonus Bunny Bums!

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How to make a bunny cake

How to make a bunny cake:  A bit excited for this post.  We teamed up with QVC to get an assortment of kitchen products to help us make this bunny cake (and a bonus of bunny bum cupcakes).

I promise it isn’t as hard as it looks. And would you believe it took just one 9″ round cake? Watch this darling video for the easy how-to steps!

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How to make a bunny cake:

So who’s joining us this year in making a bunny cake?

As promised – a video on those darling bunny bum cupcakes….these were by far the favorite of my kids. Who can resist those cute little bunny bums!

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How to Make a Bunny Cake!

Ingredients

  • One 9" round cake already baked
  • Cream Cheese Frosting
  • coconut

Instructions

  1. Bake your 9" round cake
  2. Cut it in half
  3. Frost one side and stack the other half on top
  4. Cover cardboard with parchment paper, add frosting to the base to help the cake stay
  5. Stand the two halves up on your parchment paper
  6. With a knife, cut a small notch into the cake to make the neck and head of the bunny
  7. Use part of the scrap to create a tail
  8. Frost the cake
  9. Cover the frosting with coconut
  10. Add bunny ears made from paper
  11. Enjoy!
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Almost too cute to eat! Almost!

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So, tell us, which is your favorite? I’m telling you both of these are so much fun to bake and decorate! Especially with cute colored bowls and mixers!

Happy Easter! Now go get those bunnies a cookin’.

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Monday, March 23, 2020

Getting 10,000 Steps in Style

*We’re so excited to partner with Hotter Shoes on this post! We’ve loved their shoes from the beginning and know you will too!

This spring break has been different than anything I ever anticipated. Instead of hopping a flight to the beach, my four kids and I have been doing a lot of outdoor walks and bike rides in our quiet neighborhood. COVID-19 has altered daily life, but one blessing that’s come from social distancing is that I have been getting my daily 10,000 steps in and loving the spring sunshine.

It’s also shown me how important positivity and friendship is. I look forward to my daily walks where I’m sure to cross paths (at a comfortable 6-foot distance) with neighbors and friends. The medium of our connections right now seems to be via walking and with spring in full swing, it’s time to step into spring in comfort and style with Hotter Shoes.

Getting 10,000 Steps in Style

You’ve probably heard us talk about Hotter shoes before. They are amazing travel shoes and are probably one of the most comfortable shoes you will ever walk in. That’s because they’re made in a Comfort Lab in England that designs every style with expertise and technology and then lovingly packages them, ready to be delivered to your door.

Get your 10,0000 steps in this spring and turn a few heads with Hotter’s fun new styles!

Martinique Wedges

Step out in style in the Hotter Martinique Wedge. It’s got a slight wedge heel with a cushioned footbed that makes being on your feet all day a breeze. Plus, the punched coral leather is playful and perfect for both casual and more dressed up.

The Martinique comes in three great colors and is a must-have shoe for spring! It’s the style of a heel and the comfort of a cushioned sandal combined.

Other Must-Have Hotter Shoes for Spring/Summer

After owning several pairs of Hotter Shoes, I’m constantly impressed by their high quality. And the comfort is amazing! They’re especially great if you have issues with toes, feet, or knees. Here are some new Hotter styles I think you’ll love!

Palmas Wedges

I love this sandal for it’s femininity. The leather bow at the toes and the thin strap around the ankles makes it a fun spring/summer shoe.

Daisy Shoes & Tourist Sandal 

These are two of my all-time favorite Hotter styles. The Daisy is a slip-on that is insanely comfortable, plus check out all the different colors! They’re the pair of shoes I keep by the door so that I can throw them on and go anywhere and still look like I’ve got it together.

The Tourist is probably my main summer sandal. I can never, ever go back to flat plastic flip-flops.

Tara Shoes

If you love slip-ons as much as I do, you’ll love the Tara. They come in three gorgeous colors this season (the above print is no longer available) and are the shoe you’ll keep close.

Check out these other favorites:

Tahiti Wedges (*new)

Brooke Shoes

Resort Sandals

So this spring and summer, get outside, enjoy the fresh air and sunshine and get your 10,000 steps in while turning a few heads in the process.

Use code: SPRING35 for 35% Off!

Right now, Hotter Shoes are 35% off sitewide with the code SPRING35. Shop now!

 

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Rebuilding a Worn out & Abandoned Old Snow Pusher 4 k by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

Rebuilding a Worn out & Abandoned Old Snow Pusher 4 k
We found what we think is a 14-20 year old arctic pusher that was abandoned and left to rot. We are going to try and completely rebuild it from the ground up using minimal tools. I learn a new word- "Rust weld".


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23 Non-Casserole Dinners You Can Take To Someone in Need

Many of us have taken the opportunity to bring dinner to someone else, wether it’s a friend who had a new baby, someone who is experiencing grief, or an individual you know who could just use dinner brought to them. Sometimes a gesture as simple as that can mean everything in the world.

I remember when I’d just had my first baby and was on maternity leave from my teaching job. One late afternoon, as I was overwhelmed with a crying baby, a knock came to my door. It was a fellow teacher carrying two bags of groceries, full of precooked meals like rotisserie chicken, a salad mix, and fresh cut fruit. His kind gesture saved me that day, and still makes me emotional thinking about it. He could have easily driven straight home from school to relax from a stressful day, but he didn’t.

You may never know what a simple gesture like bringing dinner to someone can mean to them. If you’re like me and would love to help, but could use a few good ideas, here are 23 of them!

23 Non-Casserole Dinners You Can Take To Someone Who Needs It

1. Chicken salad croissants

Who says you have to “cook” dinner for someone. Grab the makings of chicken salad croissants, cut up a watermelon, and keep it simple.

2. Fajitas

Saute some steak or chicken with peppers and onions, throw in a few toppings and tortillas and you can easily drop by some delicious fajitas.

3. Meatballs

Meatballs are so versatile and can stay warm in a crockpot until you deliver them. Y0u can serve these easy slow cooker sweet and spicy meatballs with rice or noodles for a comforting dinner.

4. Marinated meat to throw on the grill

Marinate some steak or chicken in a freezer bag and deliver to someone who’s just had a baby or is going through a stressful time. Include some potato salad and sliced watermelon for a thoughtful touch.

Try this simple, delicious marinade:

1/4 cup olive oil

2 TB soy sauce

1 tsp. Monterey steak seasoning

5. Pulled pork

Pulled pork is another great thing to make in the slow cooker or instant pressure cooker and it makes a great main dish for pulled pork sandwiches or tacos. This is a nice quick pork carnitas recipe for your pressure cooker.

6. A fresh salad with dressing on the side

There’s nothing wrong with a casserole, but sometimes a fresh salad feels so refreshing and healthy. A lot of people forget that salads can make great to-go meals for a friend. As long as you keep the dressing in a mason jar on the side, this meal can be kept in the fridge until dinner time.

Here are 3 better-than-store-bought dressings to try!

Homemade Salad Dressing Recipes

7. Lettuce wraps to go

Another fresh, yummy dish that travels well are lettuce wraps. We love this Easy Peasy version where you can cook the meat beforehand and have plenty left for your own family.

8. Have food delivered from their favorite restaurant.

Nothing beats food from your favorite restaurant when you’re down. It’s a thoughtful gesture that will be appreciated and remembered for a very long time.

9. Award winning chili and corn bread

As far as comfort foods go, nothing beats a warm bowl of chili with a side of corn bread. It’s the epitome of a healing dish. Check out this award-winning chili that is so simple, a child can make it.

10. The makings for a baked potato bar

Wash and wrap some whole potatoes in aluminum foil and bake them at 350 degrees for one hour. Put together the fixings for a baked potato bar: shredded cheese, steamed broccoli, sour cream, and bacon bits. Deliver to a friend.

11. Comforting chicken noodle soup

Chicken noodle soup is the ultimate comfort dish. This homestyle recipe is made with homemade noodles and has been passed down for generations. It makes a perfect dinner to take to new parents or a friend in need.

12. Portable burritos

Big, stuffed burritos are one of my family’s favorite meals. Take a large tortilla, pile it with rice, beans, shredded beef or chicken, cheese, etc. Wrap, repeat, and deliver in aluminum foil so that all the recipient has to do is heat them in the oven until warm.

13. Tomato soup so good you’ll never go back…

Another great soup to take to a friend is our all-time favorite, homemade tomato soup with roasted tomatoes. This soup is so good, you’ll never, ever go back to the canned version. Deliver with breadsticks or French bread.

14. Easy-to-assemble French dip sandwiches

French dip sandwiches are an easy item to take to a friend. Put a rump roast in the slow-cooker with some herbs and spices for 6-8 hours. Try this recipe and deliver for a warm meal.

15. Quick and easy beef gyros

Another great beef recipe to make ahead and deliver are these quick and easy beef gyros with tzatziki sauce.

16. Salad in a jar

One of the smartest innovations to come to dinner has been the salad in a jar. Take a few mason jars and get inspired by these 15 Delicious Mason Jar Salads that make life easier.

17. Drop by with a pizza.

We’re all busy, and sometimes good intentions are weighed down by a hectic schedule. When that is the case, just drop by with a pizza. Promise, it will be a hit.

18. Mom’s hearty chicken and dumpling soup

Hearty soups always hit the spot. Make a double batch of mom’s hearty chicken and dumpling soup for another family; they can even freeze half of it for later.

19. Thai coconut milk grilled chicken

After having my third baby, a friend in the neighborhood brought over this amazing chicken dish that everyone (even my picky eaters) gobbled up. I texted her right away, having to know her recipe. Come to find out, it was this Thai coconut milk grilled chicken over coconut rice and I’ve made it many times since.

20. Stuffed peppers

Stuffed peppers are both easy and portable and most people forget about them when trying to decide what dish to take to a friend.

21. Easy cashew chicken over rice

I like meals I can prepare in 30 minutes or less. Cashew chicken over rice is perfect for a busy day when you want to deliver a meal to someone.

22. DIY “lunchables”

How cool would it be to fill your friend’s fridge with fun and healthy portable dinners. Grab some reusable plastic dinner containers (or bento boxes) and fill each individual section with things like fresh fruit and vegetables, crackers, olives, dips, hummus, sliders, tea sandwiches, etc.

23. Taco cones

This idea is fun and would brighten a day. Taco cones  can be made ahead of time in 30 minutes or less and can easily be transported. It’s a fun twist on taco night.

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Saturday, March 21, 2020

First the Sledge (loader) then the truck both broke down in the same night. 4 k video by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

First the Sledge (loader) then the truck both broke down in the same night. 4 k video
First the sledge broke down and then the shortiron went out-in the same night. Snowplowing is "fun". Ok actually it is fun- even though stuff breaks we have some fun playing a snowplowing game with the back drag blades that we made up to keep things fresh.


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Friday, March 20, 2020

Reese Witherspoon’s Shaker Heights House in “Little Fires Everywhere”

Hulu just dropped the first three episodes of the new Reese Witherspoon-Kerry Washington series Little Fires Everywhere. After reading the bo it was based on, I was excited to see what the houses would lo like on the show. The brick Tudor-style home they chose wasn’t at all what I had envisioned as a reader, […]

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Thursday, March 19, 2020

Lemonade: a Revolutionary Alternative To Cheer about!

We’re so excited to partner with Lemonade on this post. Find out more about them below!

Home. It’s the place you wake up to each morning and rest your head each night but home is much more than that. It’s everything that happens in-between sunrise and sunset with families and friends. Home is birthday parties and Saturday morning pancakes. It’s bringing home a new baby or puppy and whether you own or rent, “home” is probably the most important place in the world.

That’s why it’s imperative to protect your home with homeowners insurance or renters insurance. You already know that. But maybe you don’t know about Lemonade, the revolutionary homeowners and renters insurance that is saving families crazy amounts of money and in a cool way.

Lemonade: a Revolutionary Alternative To Cheer about!

Insurance is a fact of life. And as if giving away your hard-earned money to an intangible thing that you may not even get to take advantage of wasn’t hard enough, the process of buying insurance is typically an arduous task. You have to deal with commission-hungry brokers and stacks of documents inundated with legalese. And when it comes to claiming? Forget it. Expect layers upon layers of red tape.

Not with Lemonade, though. A tech-forward insurance company with a refreshingly different way of doing things, Lemonade aims to provide home and renters insurance to anyone who needs it, sans the emotional and financial toll that traditional insurers impose. It leverages state-of-the-art technology to deliver impeccable service, making insurance less of a headache, and policies start at just $5 for renters insurance— Here are five reasons you should switch to Lemonade.

1. It delivers personalized policies.

With Lemonade, there are no pesky agents to engage with, and no dizzying paperwork to go through. Simply answer a few questions from their charming AI bot, and you can get tailor-made insurance that works for you in as little as 90 seconds. You have the option to customize and adjust your coverage at your will, and you pay right then and there.

2. Lemonade disrupts the traditional insurance model.

Unlike traditional insurers, Lemonade takes a flat fee and all the rest goes towards paying your claims. So there’s never a conflict of interest between you the policyholder, and your insurer. It’s that simple. . 

3. You only need to pay a flat fee.

Given the coverage that Lemonade offers to customers (insurance to rented or owned properties, with the option to add extra for high-ticket items), it’s astounding how affordable their rates are. Renters insurance starts from $5 a month, while homeowners insurance starts from $25 a month. Your final rate will still depend on how much coverage you need, but you can’t find a better deal than Lemonade.

4. Lemonade pays claims instantly.

Lemonade does away with confusing forms. Should you need to file a claim, you would only have to answer a few questions from their AI bot, Jim. You’ll be asked to speak to a camera where you’ll tell them what items were damaged or stolen. The system will then process the information and get back to you with a result. If instantly approved, you might  get your payout in as fast as three seconds. Compared to traditional insurance companies, Lemonade is a breeze to work with.

5. It gives you the opportunity to give back to causes you care about.

At its core, Lemonade is all about making a change, and that includes taking care of what truly matters. At the end of every year, if there is leftover, unclaimed money, it will go directly to your charity of choice, allowing you to give back to causes you value the most.

Ready to give Lemonade a squeeze? Get a free quote here.

 

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Wednesday, March 18, 2020

5 new Lawn care tools & equipment with improved designs and Brand new gear. 4k by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

5 new Lawn care tools & equipment with improved designs and Brand new gear. 4k
5 new products -One has never been seen before for the for the lawn care industry-including improvements on old designs and brand new prototypes getting ready to be released in 2020. 10% off everything in this video at ballard-inc.com using coupon code dirtmonkey


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When Tigers Come in: A Look at Childhood Anxiety

When Tigers Come In - A Look At Childhood Anxiety

When Tigers Come In

Usually, I can blame most childhood hiccups on “a phase.”

Oh, that bout of hyperactivity…that’s just a phase. Markers on the walls…thankfully that’s a phase. So when my oldest daughter started worrying about every little thing, I commenced the wait-it-out process. Be patient…this is just a phase.

The worry seemed to have no end.

She’d worry about being late to school to the point it induced tears. She would stress about being the first one to school or the last one to school. She’d agonize about having bad dreams at night and would lie awake, too scared to go to sleep. Life became a series of what-if questions. What if I’m the only one wearing a hat for hat day? What if I’m late? What if tigers come in our house? No amount of soothing or positive talk seemed to help. And at eight-years-old, I began to feel helpless because she was carrying a weight much too heavy for her little body.

One night I found Mayzie by my bed crying. “Mom, my tummy hurts. I think I’m going to…” Throw up. All over the floor. After I cleaned everything up and got her to bed, she seemed to feel a little better. As I tucked her in she asked again, “Mom, what if tigers come in our house?”

I assured her that we live in Idaho and the only Tigers here are in the zoo. “But mom, what if they get out of the zoo and come in our house.” Something in her eyes told me this was a serious concern.

A Look at Childhood Anxiety

Something weird happened after that. Mayzie threw up once every single day for eleven days straight. Sure she’d contracted some exotic virus, I took her to the pediatrician only to learn nothing was wrong. In the mean time, basketball season started. I’d signed Mayzie up hoping that she’d learn to love the sport that was so dear to me. But mom, what if I don’t know anybody? 

“You’ll make friends!” I’d tell her, trying to pump her up. Of course she’d make friends because that’s how I’d made many friends. On the first day of practice, she had a breakdown. Crying, shallow breathing, refusal to join the team. It wasn’t pretty, but I told myself, “Hang with it, it’s just a phase. That night Mayzie threw up again. I started to think something was going on beyond a mere stomach bug.

Practices got a little better–not great, but better.

The throwing up stopped and I was thinking, Okay, phew! We got past it. However, the worrying continued, the what-ifs escalated, and then the headaches came. Headaches and nausea and Mayzie was in so much misery that I was utterly helpless to assuage. I’d take on her pain in an instant if I could.

A Moment of Clarity

Then one night a moment of clarity struck me. It was the night before one of her basketball games and Mayzie came in again complaining of a stomach ache. It was like finally cracking a tough equation. Worrying + what-ifs +stressful new activity = headaches and vomiting. Oh my gosh, I think she’s got anxiety. Everything suddenly made sense.

Anxiety is a form of stress that affects all people differently. Everyone feels it; anxiety is those butterflies in your stomach before a big interview or presentation. You might feel anxious before getting on a plane or starting a new job. Many people use their anxiety as a springboard into doing hard things. They’re able to push off of their anxiety into happy results. Others, however, get overwhelmed by their anxiety. The worry becomes intense t0 the point they experience dizziness, difficulty breathing, nausea, vomiting, or headaches.

Anxiety is real. Sadly, it is largely misunderstood at best and debunked at worst. And yes, even kids can experience severe anxiety. I wish I’d been quicker to recognize it in my own child. The following are some common signs of childhood anxiety (from KidsHealth.org) that might help you with early intervention.

Common Signs of Childhood Anxiety

  • excessive worry most days of the week, for weeks on end
  • tend to be perfectionists or like things a certain way
  • trouble sleeping at night
  • irritability
  • unexplained tiredness
  • persistent stomach aches or complaints of sickness
  • frequent worry about what might happen
  • dwelling on what-if scenarios

The good news is, once you recognize it, there are plenty of ways to treat childhood anxiety that don’t call for hefty doses of medication.

Ways You Can Help Your Child Cope with Anxiety

  • Validate your child’s feelings. Let them know that worry is normal. Use statements like, “I can see how that would be scary.” or “It’s okay to feel scared.” Be supportive and nonjudgmental.
  • Model and teach positive self-talk. One way to help kids work through their anxiety is through positive self-talk. Model statements like, “It’s going to be okay.” “If I’m late, it’s not the end of the world, I will be okay.” “Tigers don’t live in Idaho. My doors are locked. I can go into mom and dad’s room if I need to.” Teaching anxious kids how to positive self-talk is a powerful tool they can use when you’re not there.
  • Talk through those what-if scenarios. Okay, so what if you are late to school. What can you do? Maybe your child is anxious about being singled out, or worried about using a different entrance to the school. Walk them through each hallway of their worries and help them find solutions to those what-ifs.
  • Keep a routine. Kids who are prone to anxiety like the safety and predictability of a routine. If something big is coming up, like a doctor’s appointment, they’d like to know about it in advance.
  • Don’t over-schedule them. Too many activities can get overwhelming for most children, but especially anxious kids. Allow down-time for them to relax and be themselves.

Once I recognized Mayzie’s anxiety for what it was, I could finally help her. Now we’re working on positive techniques to deal with the worry and since then, there have been no tummy aches, no throwing up, and no headaches. It’s a tough job figuring these kids out. Sometimes it’s in their best interest to “suck-it-up,” and sometimes we just need to back off. It’s a tricky line to toe.

If you suspect childhood anxiety, it’s always worth looking into. The sooner you can recognize it, the sooner you can keep those tigers in the zoo where they belong.

Parenting is one of the toughest jobs out there, right? We get it and want to help where we can. Check out a few more of our tips and tricks that will help you wade through this thing called parenthood:

6 Things Kids Don’t Want To Tell You and One Genius Way To Ask

6 Things Kids Don’t Want To Tell You and One Genius Way To Ask

4 Toddler Tantrum Tricks That Actually Work

4 Toddler Tantrum Tricks That Actually Work

One Sweet Way To Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem: Be Their Secret Pal!

One Sweet Way To Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem: Be Their Secret Pal!

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UTV plowing deep snow by Stanley "Dirt Monkey" Genadek

UTV plowing deep snow How much snow can a UTV push? Let's see if it can plow 8" of heavy wet snow on long runs over a gravel drive...